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Ka Ea used to be a globe trotter. She has lived in Timor Leste and Afghanistan while working as a civic education and human rights officers for the United Nations. She then tried to be a full time housewife in Ethiopia and Cambodia but failed miserably. These days, Ka Ea spends most of her time at the Pusat Rakyat LoyarBurok, Ananda Bhavan and Hulu Langat. When she's not there, she can be found lying on the couch at home with two of her best friends watching So You Think You Can Dance. Among the trio, only one can really dance.
How to Choose a Spouse, ADUN, or MP

How to Choose a Spouse, ADUN, or MP

Keeping politicians accountable.

Accidental lessons

Accidental lessons

A possible explanation why taxi and bus drivers drive as recklessly as they do?

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21st century slavery – really?!

21st century slavery – really?!

“If Heaven could cry, then Cambodia would never know drought.”

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#International Volunteers Week (2-8 Dec): Don’t talk so much-lah

#International Volunteers Week (2-8 Dec): Don’t talk so much-lah

Read an exclusive interview with a journalist who’s not afraid to speak her mind.

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#International Volunteers Week (2-8 Dec): Belia nadi negara

#International Volunteers Week (2-8 Dec): Belia nadi negara

“Saya ingin membawa pembaharuan di peringkat belia.”

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#International Volunteers Week (2 – 8 December): Giving is Believing

#International Volunteers Week (2 – 8 December): Giving is Believing

LoyarBurok pays tribute to volunteers this week.

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The truth shall set you free

The truth shall set you free

from the fear of flushing and Bersih

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The Message Is In The Song

The Message Is In The Song

Bob Marley once sang these famous words: Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery None but ourselves can free our minds Have no fear for atomic energy ‘Cause none of them can stop the time I wondered whether he was high on weed when he was writing those words. Whether he was or wasn’t, this song went […]

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Two Women, Two Tribes and a Journey of a Lifetime (Part IX) – finale

Two Women, Two Tribes and a Journey of a Lifetime (Part IX) – finale

During the Soviet-backed Derg regime under the government of Mengistu Haile Mariam (1975-1991), the Mursi had been told to abandon their practise of lip-plate because it was seen as a symbol of backwardness. Apparently, threats were issued by a regional government official that whoever continued to stretch their lips would have their lower lips cut off entirely, served as a lesson to others.

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Two Women, Two Tribes and a Journey of a Lifetime (Part VIII)

Two Women, Two Tribes and a Journey of a Lifetime (Part VIII)

He laughed along good naturedly as soon as he realised that the cat had been led out of the bag. The sparkle in his eyes told me that he is an intelligent man with a great sense of humour. I asked him for his name and he told me he is Uleketele and I wrote it down immediately on my notebook. From then onwards, he would often come to me and asked me to show him his name on my notebook and to read it out loud. It delighted him immensely to look at his own name, written in Roman alphabets and hearing the sound of it from a farenji’s mouth.

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Amour sans frontiere #LoyarBerkasih

Amour sans frontiere #LoyarBerkasih

I gave it up to be filial but as soon as I became an adult, I couldn’t wait to lose my virginity. Now, I am just promiscuous.

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Two Women, Two Tribes and a Journey of a Lifetime (Part VII)

Two Women, Two Tribes and a Journey of a Lifetime (Part VII)

“As soon as we wound down the car windows to have a better look at them, we were attacked by a swarm of flies which seemed to have originated from the Mursi. There was a sudden waft of strong body odour which hit the both of us from all direction without any warning.” Two women’s journey of a lifetime continues.

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Two Women, Two Tribes and A Journey of a Lifetime (Part VI)

Two Women, Two Tribes and A Journey of a Lifetime (Part VI)

Sure enough, we spotted a bald Mursi woman with her lower lip hanging loosely beneath her jaw, sitting at the front of the market enjoying her bottle of araki. It was the first time in our lives that we have ever seen a Mursi woman in person.

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In Search Of Besa

In Search Of Besa

It is quite a fallacy to think that Malaysia is internationally famed for being a moderate Muslim country that takes pride in its multi-racial and multi-cultural DNA.

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Two Women, Two Tribes, and a Journey of a Lifetime (Part V)

Two Women, Two Tribes, and a Journey of a Lifetime (Part V)

Each woman, with a 20-litre jerry can strapped onto their backs, some pregnant and some riped with old age, take their task seriously as they often risk sexual harassment due to long distance of isolated paths taken to reach the water source. Humanitarian organisations have often tried to make sure that new water wells are being constructed as close as possible to their homes in order to avoid such risk.

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It must get better

It must get better

I find this campaign (It Gets Better in Malaysia) very human. It’s not just about promoting or glorifying the rights of lesbian, bisexual, gay and transgendered persons. It’s about treating and respecting them as human beings who don’t deserve to be bullied and certainly don’t deserve to suffer in silence.

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Two Women, Two Tribes and One Journey of a Lifetime (Part IV)

Two Women, Two Tribes and One Journey of a Lifetime (Part IV)

Two Women, Two Tribes, and a Journey of a Lifetime is a 9-part series penned by Lim Ka Ea about her one year stint in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia where she accompanied her husband on his 9th humanitarian mission. No stranger to travel and humanitarian missions herself, she learned that Ethiopia is not really Africa and […]

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Two Women, Two Tribes and a Journey of a Lifetime (Part III)

Two Women, Two Tribes and a Journey of a Lifetime (Part III)

Two Women, Two Tribes, and a Journey of a Lifetime is a 9-part series penned by Lim Ka Ea about her one year stint in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia where she accompanied her husband on his 9th humanitarian mission. No stranger to travel and humanitarian missions herself, she learned that Ethiopia is not really Africa and […]

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Two Women, Two Tribes, and a Journey of a Lifetime (Part II)

Two Women, Two Tribes, and a Journey of a Lifetime (Part II)

Two Women, Two Tribes, and a Journey of a Lifetime is a 9-part series penned by Lim Ka Ea about her one year stint in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia where she accompanied her husband on his 9th humanitarian mission. No stranger to travel and humanitarian missions herself, she learned that Ethiopia is not really Africa and […]

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Two Women, Two Tribes, and a Journey of a Lifetime (Part I)

Two Women, Two Tribes, and a Journey of a Lifetime (Part I)

This 9-part series tells the story of how two “tai-tais” explored Ethiopia and discovered their life as both an individual and a woman. The journey begins with Part I, “My first encounter with Africa.”

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